Many teens anticipate prom night with joy, yet the event puts overt and
subtle pressures on teenagers that can jeopardize their safety. Many prom
activities are unchaperoned, for instance, and teens as a result can be
tempted to make choices they will later regret. As a parent, you need
to know what
not to do as well as what to do to protect your children. Here are some safety
don’t work well, along with positive advice about to keep your teen safe.
Asking who will be doing the driving. Good start, but this tactic may not go far enough. Your teen may lie or
evade, or he or she may fail to give it enough thought until too late.
Consider splurging on a limo to ensure the driver has not been drinking.
(Or just teach your child how to download the Uber app!)
Waiting until the night of the prom to talk to teens about the dangers
of alcohol and drug use. This won’t be an effective strategy – it’s too little,
too late. Once children reach the age when they encounter these substances,
the discussions should begin. Revisit the subject periodically, and always
emphasize that your main concern lies with their safety. You’re
not trying to control or dominate.
Relying solely on admonitions and threats of punishment to get the teen
to abstain from drugs and alcohol. You want “buy in” from your child, so it’s much better
if your teen
wants to behave safely. In addition, do your due diligence. Ask the limo driver
to refrain from making stops on the way to the prom.
Power to the Parent.org recommends that parents also check the limo, including the trunk, for
drugs or alcohol.
Hesitating to ask questions about prom night plans for fear of offending your teen. Don’t be a shrinking violet. Ask for the address and phone number
of the prom party’s site. If the plans include a celebration in
a private home, talk to the homeowner beforehand to be sure the event
will have adult supervision.
Warning against inappropriate sexual behavior. Again, chastising your teen isn’t a recipe for success and getting
the outcome you want. To discourage poor choices, be empathetic, and ask
good questions without being judgmental. If your teen is receptive, maybe
spend time going over contingencies, asking your teen how he or she would
respond in a given situation, so you can spot red flags.
As you know, teenage misbehavior during prom – particularly drinking
and drug use – can result in disaster. This news article reports
on a Maryland effort to address the issue:
Maryland Enacts New Law to Assist Efforts to Curb Underage Drinking.
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